Недавно я серьезно задумался о своих отношениях с сыном. Я его люблю, но все ли это, что я могу и должен ему дать? Задачка оказалась не тривиальная: вот так, чтобы действительно серьезно, не на бегу, сесть и спокойно подумать: «А правильно ли мои дети развиваются? Доволен ли я тем, как мы общаемся? А они? Чему я должен научить своих детей и чему их учу в реальности?»
""Of course, to accept a child means to love him not for the fact
that he is beautiful, smart, capable, excellent student, assistant, and so on,
but just for the fact that he's alive»
Professor Julia Gippenreiter
""For success in life, the ability to communicate with people is much more important than having talent"
John Lubbock
From the outside, the life of nobles and aristocrats can seem like a continuous holiday and incessant entertainment. This is not true at all. Yes, public appearances, balls, salon conversations and personal correspondence-all this was, but the life of the nobles was more like a strict ritual, for the high-quality performance of which required upbringing from childhood. Very tough upbringing!
Denis is eleven, and he began to argue strongly with us - with me and my wife. On any issue, he has his own opinion, and he is across. This is joyful because the son is growing up smart, but dangerous because we may lose control of our very, very lively child. This is undesirable. What should I do?
I can talk Best. So I started doing it: after dinner, we finished our tea, the three of us - my son, my wife, and I-and I started talking to my wife and then to Denis. I said:
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